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Relationship Checklist
Below is a checklist to test your readiness for relationship.
You do not need to be looking or interested in a relationship when you take this test. Anyone can take it to know their readiness for a relationship.
1. Am I still in love with an ex-partner?
2. Am I still carrying tremendous resentment and rage towards an ex-partner?
3. Do I often feel spiritually dry or emotionally empty within myself?
4. Do I dislike the person that I am?
5. Do I feel that I have very little that's valuable to offer a mate?
6. Do I have addictions (substance, sexual) I'm not dealing with?
7. Do I feel lonely, desperate and totally miserable without a relationship?
8. Do I feel that no one would want to be in a relationship with me?
9. Do I find it almost impossible to feel any emotion?
10. Am I unwilling to talk about my feelings with others?

The more you answer yes to the questions above, the more unready you are for a healthy relationship.
You may want to call a pastor or ask your cell leader for help if you tick yes for more than three questions.



 
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